Sexy Lingerie – For Angels and Devils in Red, White, Black & Blue

There are materials that can drive men wild, call it a fetish or what ever you choose, there is an inevitable attraction – lace, leather, satin, skin and metal are some. Men are attracted to certain feel and textures, be it the HD Hot Rod he rides or the lingerie he touches and honestly, who can be blamed when it is hormonally genetic? According to sex survey among courting and married couples on bedroom sexuality, one of the most frequent complaints from the men is that the women in their lives are reluctant to wear sexy lingerie though most of the men voiced the idea that wives and girlfriends wearing sexy lingerie and thematic undergarments/ garments (Babydoll, Maid, Pole Dancer, Belly Dancer) as one of their most erotic fantasies.

With any average office going woman, sexy lingerie as a day-to-day wear has only been an occasional option unless there is a lot more happening at work. All it takes is to buy a set of underwear that fits both the body and the wallet – perhaps a matching bra and panty set to wear under your work clothes. No one else knows what you’re wearing, but you!

After all not all would desperately want to look ‘sooo’ sexy in revealing underwear at the workplace, and so long as it is well hidden and under you clothes, as that is the usual logic, you might not care what you are wearing. And so far as no one else need ever know what old lingerie you’re wearing, you might be imagining it to be comfortable wearing what ever you are wearing or don’t ever give it much thought, in spite them being old, out dated and worn out. Then, your lingerie needs to be completely reworked. So like many other women who don’t, let me conclude, you never knew how sexy lingerie could work for you, perhaps even change your life for good!

This might sound like a old wine marketing technique now delivered in new bottle, but it still holds true – even if it is just about your panty or your bra. Psychologists say, whether or not you reveal how sexy you look underneath, what you wear can have a definite say on your confidence level, day in and out. Have you paid attention to your attitude on days you wear your new underwear? Haven’t you felt all the more feminine? More attractive, even if it might not always show? More confident, because only you know have underneath? Sexier and more? Though we are not advocating flirting since you might be feeling sexier in sexy lingerie (which you might be tempted to do) you sure would feel a surge of confidence in the total package that makes you – your inner garments complementing your outer wear and giving way to a positive, healthy on-top-of-the-world attitude in you. In short, well fitting and admirable sexy lingerie is a feminine life style choice, just like good food, fashion, moderate living, exercising and sleep, it too can have an effect on your emotional quotient.

The truth is that women love sexy lingerie just as much as the men though workplace equations, family responsibilities, day to day stresses, and worries would comprehensively shut thought from flirting any where around lingerie. And it is not a mistake as long as you have at least experimented with the idea of wearing sexy lingerie at least on special occasions with your boy friend or hubby, when you are sure to have them seen and felt? If you haven’t, you have limited and confined yourself from something so temptingly simple, explore-able even if you do not intend to write a thesis, affordably sexy and holds the promise of hours of fun, at least in bed.

Any woman can truly express herself through her intimate apparel though at the beginning it might take some experimentation with materials, textures, designs and cuts to find that subtlety or boldly highlights for your smooth curves and that which allows your feminine side to glow or your sexy and seductive emotions to romp, or the innocent and naughty you to shimmer. It is your time to play the Angel or the Diva or a bit of both with sexy lingerie. Regardless how confident or not you feel about your body, sexy lingerie is the best way to begin being your naughty and confident self again though once you start wearing sexy lingerie, you may never want to get out of it again.

Shop For Your Unique Bridal Lingerie

There are a massive kind of bra and panty sets, corsets, baby doll and other bridal lingerie to chose from, and even though it looks like a huge job for shopping for the right bridal lingerie, it can be fun. Do not forget that you be able to perform it on the Internet in on line shops; Along with your cash in mind, you will be capable to stumble on something on line according to your style, size, and your taste in lingerie.

Shopping for your bridal lingerie must be enjoyable as well as you want to look fine for your companion to be, under your wedding gown, do not simply rush out and purchase to get it over with, take your time in finding your lingerie. Get the wedding lingerie that you feel most happy in and that fits you best by taking your time. without thinking of that night, you are going to be dressed in your lingerie all day long, you are going to dance in it, bend over in it, keep this in weight when you shop for your bridal lingerie. Acquire lingerie that will knock his socks off on your marriage night, just to the same degree he is going to knock your..uhm..socks off. Catch my meaning?

What wedding lingerie are you going to wear on your exclusive wedding night? You must perhaps work out that, once you get your completed wedding gown. Jump then to shop for your lingerie. The simple reason is that you can fit your bridal lingerie and your wedding gown, you will now be able to see what lingerie will be the best, you don’t want to let all the wedding guests see what is settle for the spouse, on that particular night.

You can now easily put on your lingerie and afterward fit your gown again over it, this make it excellent for considering the positive or the negative points in the choosing of your class of bridal lingerie. Unattractive hemlines and bra straps will not be on view for the complete marriage party, you experience the relief now of knowing you made the perfectly option in your bridal lingerie. Keep in mind that the right lingerie can often help you to shape some parts of your body contours in the sense that is going to meet your requirements.

While you go out shopping for your wedding lingerie, you can start searching piece by piece, start with the bra for instance. Your bra can hand sufficient support to your wedding gown furthermore maybe your ..uhm ..content inside the bra as well! You will definitely need a bra of excellence for it will be the one item you will be wearing the entire day long until the night maybe, you must be at ease in it for that reason.

Another favorite that brides enjoy to make use of are bustiers. It appears like strapless bras and it certainly are invent to show cleavage at best.

Countless brides makes use of the corset, it laces up the rear and is fixed with a hook and eye side closure that is hidden. These corsets are capable of enhancing the bust and the waist. Jointly with the corsets often clip-on leg garters are included, and begin either just beneath or above the waist and runs downward to below the hips or waist, you obtain a picture of a tiny waistline and large breasts. This is eye candy for any spouse and a exceptionally good pick to make for your bridal lingerie.

There are other products like sheer baby dolls, chemises, and several others. Sheer baby dolls are also available for the plus size women plus they look gorgeous in this sexy mesh lingerie!

Let your bridal night and your bridal lingerie be the beginning off your sexy mesh lingerie compilation, it will keep the glow in your marriage also do not forget that there are sheer men’s lingerie available as well! Your relationship will be exciting with all your different types of lingerie.

Make your unique night exceptionally memorable by means of dressed in bridal lingerie, and keep that flame burning high all through your marriage by means of collecting a number of sexy mesh lingerie.

Most of all, you should take pleasure in your shopping, feel comfortable in your bridal lingerie and simply go out there and have the best day in your existence.

Confidence – Your Best Accessory!

When you are faced with Breast Cancer, as Jo Trinidad and Susan Zipperlen have, your style and approach to beauty changes. Both women have undergone double mastectomies and Chemotherapy and Jo has also had radiation. Speaking with both of these women and discussing how their individual style and beauty was challenged during this period in their life was informational and inspiring. I found their radiating personalities and uplifting attitude to be similar but their approach to fashion, style and beauty to be quite different. Jo is a nurse and Susan is the owner of a Spa. Their careers are quite different as was their focus on what was important to them during their treatment.

Jo loves fashion and being fashionable. “I feel great, when I look good. Hearing that I had Breast Cancer was a shock. Part of the process was processing…What it will be like when I lose my breasts? I have a draw full of new bras from Victoria Secret – What will I do with them? I have a closet full of clothes, some with tags still on them – Will I be able to wear them? Will they still fit me?” stated Jo. For Susan losing her breasts was not as much of an issue as was her fear of looking sick or different. “I was concerned about looking abnormal, withered, and dull. I felt because of my industry the bar was higher. Skincare is my business, it’s what I do,” stated Susan.

At varying times during treatment you’re very sick and fashion, style and beauty are the last things on your mind. But when you’re feeling better you just want to fit in and be normal. “My friends were great. There was a rotation of girlfriends to take me out. When you’re going through this you don’t want to look sick, you don’t want pity,” explained Jo. It is important to do the things that make you feel pretty and feminine…you want to feel like a woman. Looking good does a lot for your overall attitude.

Jo and Susan had very different approaches to what helped them feel and look better during their treatment.

Mastectomy and breast reconstruction – Both women have been through the process of losing and reconstructing their breasts. For Jo this was traumatic. “I wasn’t ready to lose my breast and then I found out that it (the cancer) was bigger and they needed to take both (breasts). I had a difficult time dealing with it…but now, with reconstruction, my new breasts look pretty darn good! It is a consolation that when I’m in my seventies my breasts will look 30 years younger. I found that camisoles are much more comfortable than a bra. They are really feminine. Pretty sexy undergarments make me feel like a woman! My best accessory is my confidence. Every woman needs to feel good about being a woman,” communicated Jo. For Susan she had a very different take on losing her breasts. “Missing my breasts was not an issue for me. I like my breasts better now than I did before. I feel 100% secure and feminine in clothing. Before my style was conservative, but now I am more daring. I now have something there and I can wear chest flattering tops. I take advantage of wearing fun tops and sweaters. I feel a lot better…perky, sexy and full,” explained Susan.

“To prepare your skin for reconstruction it needs to be soft and pliable. At the time of the mastectomy, temporary tissue expanders are placed under the skin to stretch the skin in preparation for the breast implants. I used a combination of Jason’s Vitamin E 25,000 units and Aloe Vera mixed together and rubbed all over the breast area twice a day. This combo also works great after each radiation treatment to help keep the skin moisturized and to prevent sores and blisters,” explained Jo.

Hair loss during Chemotherapy – Both Susan and Jo were treated with the Chemotherapy drug that has hair loss as a side effect. Both women lost all of their hair from head to toe and both had a difficult time dealing and coping with this challenge. “Losing your hair is a humbling experience, the only good part was not shaving – that was liberating! For me my hair was my identity,” stated Susan.

When it comes to wigs there are two options; synthetic and human hair. For Jo she was determined she wanted human hair. At the time she had waist-length beautiful color treated, styled hair, “I called many hair salons to see if they could take my own hair and make it into a wig – well they can for $3k or more! I didn’t want synthetic they were too hot. So after a lot of research I found a fabulous website Couture for Cancer. It is a charitable, non-profit organization that donates custom made cranial prosthesis (Layman’s term for a wig) completely free of charge! The donation included the measurement, fitting and styling of your wig from local participating hair salons. It fit like second skin. I felt like a new person,” stated Jo.

“For me a great wig needed to be a reflection of me. I went to Comfort Wigs Etc. in Lewisville. I got a couple of wings, one shorter and one longer, and each was about $300. I felt good in it. And it did reflect me.” Susan.

“When you have a great wig people don’t treat you like your sick. You’re just a regular person, “stated Don Seal, owner and stylist, Comfort Wigs, ETC. “We see a lot more happy tears that sad tears. Our clients are so happy! It makes a tough time easier,” explained Don. Comfort Wigs offers both synthetic, that range in price from $129 – $500, and human hair wigs, that start at $500. They fit, size, style and cut them to your liking. They also offer other mastectomy products such as camisoles, breast forms and bras with pockets (for the forms). “We are the only people in North Texas that accept/bill to insurance. We charge insurance for wigs (with a prescription), camisoles, bras and breast forms,” explained Don.

After a short while Jo determined that the wig was not for her so she moved on to hats…and lots of them. Jo found many of her hats at Forever21TM. “I had so many hats, brown, black, beige, and white. There is so much you can do with them. A scarf on the brim completely changes the look. Cotton headbands work great too. You can put them on your scalp then the hat on top. Allow the colored headband to peek out all around the edge,” explained Jo.

The American Cancer Society offers a service called TLC Tender Loving Care. It is a non-profit patient service that strives to make coping easier for women experiencing hair loss due to chemotherapy and radiation as well as products specifically for breast cancer patients. Their headwear includes include wigs, hairpieces (bangs, falls and sideburns), turbans (cancer caps), hats, head scarves, and kerchiefs. And their mastectomy products include breast forms, pocketed post-surgery bras, swim suits and camisoles.

Dry irritated skin from harsh Chemotherapy – For Susan this is where she focused. Seeing that skin care is her business it no surprise that is what she concentrated on. “Chemo killed everything. My skin was dying. I was like a snake. The treatments are so harsh, you lose the elasticity in your skin; you look lift less, withered and lifeless because you’re missing nutrients. I wanted to feed my skin. I wanted sexy, beautiful skin that glowed and to do that I feed my skin from the outside. My survival kit included facials, masks and exfoliation to keep my skin fresh and dewy. For my dry skin I used the Stone Crop Maskque by EMINENCE. To get that glowy, radiant skin I did a paprika treatment every two weeks. And for beautiful, fresh skin I used the Lemon Grass Sugar Scrub from get fresh. That scent made me feel good. It smelled like spring and represented life and freshness,” communicated Susan.

Jo on the other hand tried lots and lots of creams and lotions. She found that the expensive options work no better than the others in fact “JOHNSON’STM Baby Wash and Oil were amazing and not expensive. The combo of Vitamin E and Aloe Vera by JASONTM used as a facial cream as well as to help heal incisions. They worked great,” explained Jo.

A great tip during Chemo is Saran Wrap – for Chemo a PowerPort is used, which is a small devise implanted beneath the skin under the collarbone area. It is an access to receive chemo meds. Because they have to puncture the skin to access the port, Jo was given a prescription for Lidocaine (a numbing cream). “To protect my clothes from staining, I put Saran Wrap over the Lidocaine cream just before I left my home. This way, the area where the needle will be inserted is fully numbed up by the time I got to the facility and my clothes were clean!” stated Jo.

Nails – “For discolored brittle nails, apply Tree oil on your nail beds and push your cuticles back using your thumb nail. I was advised not to have my cuticles cut or to have my feet placed in a salon’s water when I got my manicure and pedicure. What to do? At my salon visits I just had my nails filed, buffed and painted with my own nail polish from home. Chemo lowers your immune system. I couldn’t risk getting an infection through any cuts or expose myself to anything that is possibly contaminated with germs,” explained Jo.

Eyebrows and Eyelashes – For Susan brows and lashes were no big deal, “My eyebrows?…I just filled them in. And they grew back in about 6 – 7 weeks. And my lashes, I used RevitaLashTM. It’s a wonderful product that stimulated growth. It really only took about 3 ½ – 4 weeks before my lashes grew back,” stated Susan. But for Jo this was a challenge, “Where do I start? Where do I put them? How do I do this? There is a program offered by the American Cancer Society that teaches cancer patients what to do.” Jo. The Look Good…Feel Better program is a community-based, free, national program that teaches cancer patients a variety of techniques to assist them with their appearance and self-image. Topics such as make-up, skincare and hair loss options such as wigs, turbans, and scarves are discussed and demonstrated. Jo received a free kit full of make-up. “It was so fun. I got a whole bag full of new make-up,” exclaimed Jo.

Color and Make-up – “I never go out without makeup. It makes me feel fabulous to be a woman. It’s all about lipstick. No matter how bad you look…always wear lipstick,” exclaimed Jo. Color is critical. Make-up will add that color, depth and femininity to your face. As the color changes in your skin you will need to assess your make-up and what works best for you. “Making good color choices with make-up is critical,” stated Susan. Make-up locations like ULTATM are wonderful resources because you can try before you buy. Their staff is great at helping you find the right lipstick or working with you on a complete make-over. Make-up is an inexpensive way to brighten your face and make you feel pretty.

Style and Fashion – “I love fashion. I feel good when I look good. My style didn’t change it just got bolder. I needed to work with what I had in my closet and just make it happen. My taste didn’t change it got heightened. I had to do something so my style got bolder. And for me, my best accessory is self confidence,” Jo stated. Image Consultants can be a great resource as they can assess what you have in your closet and help you put together outfits and ensembles to flatter your changing body.

Both Susan and Jo exude such presence, style and beauty. But it is their confidence that stands out most. And confidence is the best kept style secret!

Resources:
• Look Good…Feel Better self-help materials can be obtained via, 1.800.395.LOOK (1.800.395.5665). For more information, visit http://www.cancer.org.
• TLC Tender Loving Care – http://www.tlcdirect.org
• Comfort Wigs ETC. – 2410 South Stemmons Frwy, Suite C, Lewisville, TX – 214.488.8885 or 866.383.8885
• ULTA – 2900 East Southlake Blvd., Southlake, TX – 817.749.0582

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• JOHNSON’S Baby Wash and Oil
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